Passion, Prowess and Gratitude

June 15, 2019

I dropped the ball on my daily writing habit the past few days. 

I knew it would happen eventually I just didn’t think it would happen so soon after recommitting.  In my defense I’ve been busy, sort of.  While I haven’t had time to write about it, I have had the distinct pleasure of witnessing 2 shining examples of passion, leading to prowess and gratitude. 

The first example occurred on Wednesday night.  As a thank-you for all my hard work over the past several months my director gave me four tickets to a rock concert by 1980’s pop legend Corey Hart.  I was given the tickets, in a luxury box no less, as an expression of gratitude for closing a big deal.  I turned around and, along with my wife invited two friends as a thanks to them for supporting our journey through life unconditionally for years. 

For his part Hart, who stepped away from live performance in 1999 to be a full-time dad, put on one of the most passionate and gracious shows I have ever seen.  Pausing mid set, and even mid song, to acknowledge the fans, with waves and comments like “I see you, nice T-shirt” to a fan wearing a Fields of Fire shirt from 1986, taking a placard from another and signing it during a guitar solo, inviting other on stage during her favorite song and even taking a walk through the middle of the crowd to take selfies. 

It was obvious that Corey Hart is passionate about his music and loves to perform, which makes the fact that he was willing to set it all aside for 20 years for the sake of his family all the more remarkable.  At one point he showed a video of himself explaining to his 14-year-old son why he had done it and why he felt that now was the time for him to launch a come back.  His son said that he appreciated everything Hart had done for him and that by his example he knew that whatever he wanted to do he would do it with passion.  After the video played Hart told the audience that 20 years ago, he never imagined that his fans would welcome him back with so much passion of their own and he was extremely grateful.

The next night I witnessed history when the Toronto Raptors won the NBA Championship.   After the game, while the players and coaches were celebrating on the court, I was struck by the gratitude everyone involved was showing for their families and the fans.  Kyle Lowry, (point-guard) was taking photos with his two children, Nick Nurse (head-coach) gave an interview with his son on his hip.  Every one of them expressed gratitude to family and fans for supporting them on their various journeys to the top of the basketball world.

It seems to me that passion is a prerequisite to success.  But it’s not enough by itself.  Passionate people need to be supported.  At first, they need the support of family and friends, next they need coaches and mentors, and lastly, they need fans and supporters who are willing to put down their own time and money to fuel the drive. 

Nothing kills passion faster than un-supportive parents and friends.  I shutter to think what the world might have lost if Corey Hart’s mother hadn’t paid for piano lessons and stood by him while and sent demo tapes to the likes of Billy Joel as a teenager.   And nothing fuels passion like gratitude.

Gratitude has a double benefit.  When we are grateful, we provide the fuel that motivates people to continue to support us.  They feel appreciated and out of their own sense of gratitude they continue to provide the support passionate people need to continue working on their dreams.  It’s a positive feedback loop that just keeps growing and leads to the last aspect that I witnessed, prowess.

Without passion and gratitude Corey Hart never would have put in the time and effort it took to write chart topping songs like “Sunglasses at Night” and “Never Surrender”.  Without passion and gratitude Kyle Lowry, Kawhi Leonard and the rest of the Toronto Raptors never would have spent the time in the gym that it takes to climb to the top of the NBA.  Without passion and gratitude, I never would have survived the last few years in business. 

What are you passionate about and to whom are you grateful for supporting you?  Show it.  I promise, gratitude will be the fuel that propels you to even greater heights.

Here’s a cell phone video I took of Corey Hart performing one of his biggest hits of the 80s.  It’s hard to see but I think you can tell that everyone, including him, is loving every second of it.


Judging Correctly

June 10-11, 2019

“Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly” [Jesus] John 7:24

Sunday in church the sermon was on John 7, when Jesus goes to the festival of tabernacles. 

It’s a great passage that symbolizes Jesus as Emmanuel (God with Us) in very practical terms.  The festival of tabernacles is the Jewish festival, still celebrated in some orthodox communities today, where the people move out of their homes and live in tents for a week to symbolize and commemorate how God led them out of Egypt and dwelled among them for 40 years while they made their way across the desert to the promised land. 

In John 7, Jesus goes alone to the festival and dwells among the people in secret.  That is until about halfway through the festival when he starts teaching in the temple courts and seriously ticks off the religious elites.

I find it interesting that the biggest question around Jesus teaching isn’t actually about what he says.  I think deep down the elites knew he was right and couldn’t argue with him without exposing their own hypocrisy.  It’s about where he gained his knowledge.  It’s religious snobbery.  The ancient equivalent of checking someone’s credentials before taking them seriously. 

In certain circles doors are only opened for people with advanced degrees from specific institutions.  If you don’t have a law degree from Harvard or Yale forget about getting a job at certain firms in New York or Boston, no matter how smart you are. 

Jesus had no such credentials.  And for a group of religious leaders obsessed with pedigree and “who taught who” that was never going to hold up.  The fact that they couldn’t prove him wrong or trap him in any inconsistencies just made them angrier. 

And then Jesus turned around and made them look like fools – “quit looking at appearances and judge correctly”, he said.


Jesus makes it very clear.  Judging correctly is simply learning to follow the will of God. 

Anyone who chooses to do the will of God will find out whether my teaching comes from God or whether I speak on my own – John 7:17

And what is the will of God? 

Love.  Love God and Love others. 

How do you know if you are following the will of God?  First ask three questions of your motivations;

  1. Am I seeking power?
  2. Am I afraid of the consequences?
  3. Am I being manipulated or manipulating others?

If you answer yes to any of those questions, it’s not love and it is not the will of God.

Jesus didn’t need credentials, everything he taught aligned perfectly with the will of God. 

On a side note –

Today people are still just as obsessed with credentials.  I’ve been in the receiving end of what I call credentials bias more times that I can count.  I have no University Degree, yet I know just as much (if not more) about economics, theology and human behavior than most preachers and economists and the combined knowledge I have gained in those three areas is almost unheard of for one individual to possess.  How many Economist/Theologian/Behaviourists do you know? 

The fact is that in today’s world knowledge is cheap.  With a computer or a library card and little bit of time anyone can learn just about anything.  Over the past 11 years, I’ve read close to 400 books, applied my knowledge and tested my theories as an author of over 600 blog posts and 4 books, public speaker and Financial Planner for over 800 individual and corporate clients.  Yet with all that specialized, self-directed learning I am still dismissed and ignored by people with far less information simply because they possess some arbitrarily agreed upon credential.

Quit looking appearances and judge correctly.  Does what I say make sense?  Is it aligned with the will of God?  Then that’s all the credentials I need. 

June 9, 2019

Is There Anybody Listening?

I’m staring a new ritual. 

I want to write for at least 30 minutes a day. 

This is going to be my new blog.  Simply journal entries that may or may not lead to something bigger.  I might not post every day 30 minutes might not be long enough to write a complete a thought.  But I will at least try to write every day and post whenever I have something coherent to upload.   

I’ve attempted to journal several times in the past.  Sometimes in the form of a handwritten notebook other times in typeset form. 

I have also blogged before, as this space is a testament but over the past several months (years) I’ve gotten away from it.  Through a series of events, heart aches, mental blocks and physical needs I simply stopped writing. 

I think it started shortly after I published my second book “Meekoethics – What Happens When Life Get’s Messy and the Rules Aren’t Enough.”  My business was taking more and more of my time and attention.  I was growing frustrated with the slow pace of growth and I simply had no desire (or knowledge, or ability, or whatever) to promote my writing.  I sold exactly zero copies of Meekoethics in the months immediately following its release and I also noticed a marked reduction in the amount of reader engagement I was getting on the blog. 

Is there anybody listing? 

I slowly and reluctantly came to the conclusion that; no, no one was in fact listening.  In an attempt to revive things, I redesigned the blog, jazzed up the visuals, built a fancy new website and even tried my hand a video blogging, but none of it worked, the engagement was gone, and my heart wasn’t in it. 

So, I stopped writing. 

Blogs it seems are passe.  Twitter, Facebook and Instagram (and probably a hundred other platforms that I’m too out of touch to know anything about) have killed the long form blog.  And that’s a shame because it’s nearly impossible to get a complex idea across in only a few characters.  We’re living in a soundbite world, our thirst for knowledge has been reduced to shot glass sized gulps of whatever the news media or celebrities can dish out.  And our attention span has gone with it.  Maybe that’s why we have a TV personality for a president and our political discourse has been reduced to hashtags and name calling.  (#frustrating)

I can tell you this; if you’ve read this far, you’re a rarity in the online community and you’re my kind of people.  Stick around and we might actually have some fun, figure out a thing or two and maybe even influence the world together. 

But that’s not really why I started writing again. There is a bigger issue that I’m wrestling with lately, one that’s admittedly both more and less selfish. 

When I stopped writing I seem to have lost a piece of myself.  You see, if I’m being honest, I have to admit that never really wanted to write for an audience anyway. 

I started journaling for the first time when I was in my late teens as a way to organize my thoughts, make sense of the world and talk to God.  Journaling for me has always been a form of prayer.  I started posting my journal entries on-line way back in 2008 on a whim and suddenly found that other people were interested in what I had to say.  I kept doing it and before I knew it my journal/prayer life had over 100 regular readers all over the world. 

When I started to notice a trends in my writing around questions of economics and theology, I used it as a stepping-stone to my first book; “Meekonomics – How to Inherit the Earth and Live Life to the Fullest in God’s Economy”.  That book led in rapid succession to a short personal finance guide “Six Steps to Financial Freedom – The Meekonomist’s Guide to Getting out of Debt, Building Wealth and Leaving a Legacy.”, and the aforementioned “Meekoethics”. 

Then I started to lose my voice.  (My writing voice that is, I never lost my ability to talk).  The lack of engagement I noticed on the blog and my inability to promote my writing started to take a tole.  I tried to write a book on leadership but after a few false starts had to face up the fact that I’ve never led anything and know next to nothing about the topic. 

And then I just started to get depressed and stopped writing altogether.

I know realize that because writing for me was never really about the audience I lost something else when I stopped.  I lost my connection to God.  In a sense, when I stopped writing I stopped praying.

Well – not exactly. 

But my prayer life did change.  Now instead of pouring out my thoughts in a prayerful written format all I could do was sit, think and listen.  

Don’t get me wrong, that type of prayerful meditation was helpful, for a season.  It helped me remain connected to God in a way that I hadn’t experienced until then and it helped me learn a whole new way of communication.  It kept me grounded and prevented my depression from running so deep that it consumed me. 

But it wasn’t the same.  I’m a writer.  I learn, grow, organize and make sense of the world by writing stuff down.  The physical, tactile connection between my mind and my body that writing brings out is essential to my way of thinking, learning and communicating. 

As I started to figure that out, I did what I have always done – I wrote it down, but I stopped sharing it. 

My latest work is a short book on prayer that I have called “Prayer School – A Contemplative Guide to the Lord’s Prayer”.  I wasn’t going to publish it at first.  I had just planned to let what I had learned through writing remain between me and God. 

But then something strange happened, Amazon sent me a cheque for royalties from the sales of my first three books.

Suddenly I felt like a real writer again.  Some people, somewhere, have read my work and thought enough of it to plunk down their hard-earned cash to own a copy of something I wrote.  My secret hope in making my writing publicly available has always been that somehow God would use my prayers to help other people and when I got that first cheque it was as if God said, “Yup, people are listening”.  (“Yup” is in the Hebrew, look it up…)

That’s why I published “Prayer School” and that’s why I am returning again to a daily ritual of writing my thoughts.  It’s always been how I pray, think and learn. 

I still have a lot to say, questions that I want to find answers to.  I have ideas for several more books, seminars, and videos.  I never want to write for my ego.  I never want to get depressed over a lack of engagement.  I don’t want to measure my worth by the number of likes I get on social media or the size of my royalty cheques. 

It’s not supposed to be about me.  At the end of the day it’s still just meant to between me and God.  You’re invited to eavesdrop on my prayer life.

So welcome back to my blog.  It’s just me and my thoughts, prayers and questions.  If you have anything to add, feel free, that’s what the comments section is for.  If not, that’s okay too because the only one who’s listening, the only one that matters at least, is God. 

My Next Big Dream

Would you Rather Be Tim Horton or Ron Joyce?

The hard thing isn’t dreaming big.  The hard thing is waking up in the middle of the night in a cold sweat when the dream turns into a nightmare.  – Ben Horowitz; The Hard Thing About Hard Things. Building a Business When There Are No Easy Answers

I have not had an easy life. 

I don’t mean to make it seem like I’ve had a hard life.  I was born into a typical middle-class family and even in my worst moments I’ve never gone hungry.  Yes, I’ve had my gas turned off.  Yes, I’ve received more than my fair share of “final notices”.  I haven’t had a vacation in over 10 years.  I’ve stretched the definition of a “3-month oil change”.  I’ve even visited the odd payday lender.   At the end of the day however, I’ve always had food on the table and a roof over my head.  I’ve never had a major health issue.  And other than these minor annoyances, I really can’t say that I’ve known anything close to extreme hardship. 

But I still haven’t had an easy life.  When you are an entrepreneur there is no such thing as easy. 

Entrepreneurs are by nature dreamers.  The bigger the dream, the deeper the passion, the harder it is to come to terms with difficulty and set backs. 

I say “difficulty and set backs” instead of failure because when you carry a big dream backed up by deep passion, failure only happens when you give up.  I’ve never failed at anything.    I’ve worked through some difficulty, had my fair share of set backs and I’ve even had to completely rethink my plan, but I haven’t yet failed.  As long as I am breathing – I will never fail!

In 2019 I’ve begun to evolve my financial services practice to include a coaching division for individuals and entrepreneurs. 

I love entrepreneurship.  Building your own business from nothing, starting with a bold vision scratched out on a napkin, so to speak, and working to make that vision a reality, is the closest thing many of us will ever come to winning an athletic championship. 

Entrepreneurs have a lot in common with athletes.  We are like prize fighters who step into the ring everyday and go 10 rounds with the world, or marathon runners who pound out mile after mile with no finish line in sight.  The sports analogies are endless.  No two groups of people are more dedicated to their dreams than athletes and entrepreneurs.  Maybe that’s why so many retired athletes end up starting businesses when their playing days are over. 

My coaching arm is focused on helping individuals and entrepreneurs realize their dreams of financial security. I will teach you to develop systems that transform your life from simply working and owning a job that is 100% dependent on your daily grind to owning a business that can run without you.  And then finally owning something that someone else will pay top dollar to purchase. 

Tim Horton owned a single donut shop, Ron Joyce built and then sold an empire.  While Tim Horton created a brand, it was Ron Joyce who turned that brand into a household name, one of the most recognizable in Canada.  My business consulting arm will help you grow from being Tim Horton, to Ron Joyce.     

Check out the new website I’m developing for my consulting business and get in on the ground floor of what I predict could become one of the most successful firms of it’s kind in Canada.  That’s right – I’m thinking like Ron Joyce for my own business too.

See you soon – Lauren

Three Cups of Tea

Building Relationships and Becoming a Trusted Advisor

“The first time you share tea with a Balti, you are a stranger. The second time you take tea, you are an honored guest. The third time you share a cup of tea, you become family.”  – Haji Ali; Village Elder – Korphe, Gilgit-Baltistan, Pakistan  

K2 – The world’s second highest mountain peak, located in the Gilgit-Baltistan region of Pakistan

In the spring of 1993, American adventurer Greg Mortenson was part of an expedition to climb K2, the world’s second highest mountain, located in the Gilgit-Baltistan region of North Eastern Pakistan. 

While making his descent in blinding snow he got separated from his group.  Instead of arriving in the village of Askole, where base camp was located and the rest of his party had been headed, he ended up 3 kilometres off course in the remote village of Korphe. 

Although only 3 km as the crow flies, Korphe is located on the opposite side of a deep chasm from Askole and due to heavy snow and the spring melt, inaccessible for over half the year.  Mortenson was stranded in Korphe for several weeks while he waited for the snow to melt.    

During his stay he noticed that the village was exceedingly poor and had no local school.  During the winter months children would either leave their families and stay with relatives in neighboring villages or more often than not, simply stay home when they couldn’t get across the chasm to Korphe.  Once the snow melted, out of gratitude for their hospitality, Mortenson pledged to return to Korphe and help them build a school of their own. 

Fast forward twenty-five years and Greg Mortenson, through the Central Asia Institute that he founded, has built over 171 schools in remote areas of Pakistan and Afghanistan.  The full story of how it all started can be found in Mortenson’s autobiographical; “Three Cups of Tea; One Man’s Mission to Promote Peace, One School at a Time.”  Although some of Mortenson’s claims are suspect and he has been accused of financial mismanagement the fact remains that there are now dozens of schools providing education to thousands of children across the remote mountain regions of Central Asia, where there were none before. 

I was reminded of Mortenson’s story recently while contemplating the often long and drawn out sales process in my business.    More specifically, I remembered the way in which Haji Ali had explained to Mortenson how to go about building long lasting relationships with the Balti people – Slowly, over tea.

There are as many different approaches to sales as there are sales people and clients.  There is no one-size-fits all approach.  But over the years I have observed that most new sales follow a path that roughly correlates to Ali’s three cups of tea theory. 

Meeting One – You are a stranger.

It is the sales person’s job in this first meeting to put the prospect’s mind at ease.  Listen to the prospect’s needs, wants, goals, dreams, and fears.  Do not interrupt.  Remember, no one trusts you at this point, offering grandiose advice without a full understanding the problem will only reinforce that distrust. Speak only when necessary, asking clarifying questions, or answering questions directed at you. 

Once the prospect has told you everything now is your turn to speak.   Resist the temptation to offer a solution.  Your job is to simply leave the prospect wanting to see you again.  Give them the impression that you are the only person in the world who can help them.  But don’t tell them how. 

I often leave these meetings by saying something like, “You’ve given me a lot to think about.  I know I can help you with this but it’s going to take me a few days to get my head around all this.  Can I call you on Tuesday?” 

When I call back on Tuesday like I promised I simply say; “I have found a solution to your problem, when can we get together so I can explain it to you?”

Meeting Two – You Are An Honored Guest

I’ve already told them that I have the answer.  They are happy to see me and eager to hear what I have to say.  They put on the charm and roll out the read carpet.  It’s as if The Pope himself or some other wise guru has come to visit with a special word of wisdom just for them. 

I begin by repeating back to them as verbatim as I can remember, the exact concerns they had the last time we spoke.  I ask them for feedback and confirmation that I understood them correctly.  When we are both in agreement that I understand the problem.  I lay out the solution being careful to link it back to their specific needs every chance I get. 

Some prospects will be so excited and happy about the solution that they will want to sign the contract right then and there.  Unless you want to make a one-off sale and forever cement yourself in the prospect’s mind as a one problem solution, resist that temptation.  Tell the prospect that they need to sleep on this.  You are trying to go from honored guest to trusted family member.  Family doesn’t rush into things.  By telling the prospect to sleep on it you are simultaneously giving them an out and elevating your status to as the kind of person who has their best interests in mind, like family. 

At this point I leave the meeting by saying, “Take your time with this, read it over, do your own research.  If there is anything you don’t understand, call me.  I’ll check back next Thursday and see how you’re doing.” 

When I call back on Thursday I ask if they have any questions and then tell them when I am available to come by and implement the plan. 

Meeting Three – You Are A Trusted Family Member

Now it’s time to do business.  This time when I come, the prospects tend to greet me like an old friend or relative.  The formality is gone, the red carpet has been replaced by a dusty floor mat.  I am no longer the wise guru with all the answers, I’m the kind uncle, or brother who’s looking out for the family.  There is no need to put on airs, I’ve already seen their dirty laundry, there is no point hiding it anymore.

At the start of the meeting I take a quick minute to reconfirm their needs and remind the prospect how my proposal solves their problems.  At this point there are very few questions left to be answered. This meeting is light, conversation centers around general life and personal matters.  Signing the contracts is just a formality and it’s done almost as an afterthought. 

Once contracts are signed, I reinforce the family image but reminding the clients that I am in their corner.  They can call me any time, day or night, there are no questions they cannot ask.  I promise to stay in touch and set a reminder in my calendar to call them twice a year, once on the anniversary of the signing of the contracts and once on their birthday, just like family. 

This process has worked for me consistently for 7 years.  My best clients have become friends.  Review meetings are more like reunions.  Without even realizing what I was doing, I’ve been following the ancient Balti tradition of three cups of tea since I started in this business. 

It works.  But more than just being a tactic for making more sales, if you’re genuine it’s a great way to make friends.  Most of my clients I think would agree, I’ve got a lot of friends. 

Going the Distance

You decide how much you want to improve by choosing how many roadblocks to remove so economy improves past a certain threshold – one where you’re suddenly performing your best at any age.  – Philip Maffetone; The Endurance Handbook

While training for a triathlon I came across the above quote.  Philip Maffetone is a world-renowned medical Dr. and trainer of high-performing endurance athletes.  His patients include Olympic and World champions across several endurance sports including, marathon, ultra-marathon, Ironman and the Eco-Challenge adventure races. 

Much of what Dr. Maffetone teaches centers around the importance of nutrition, rest and long-slow endurance training that builds up muscular resilience and trains your body to use its natural fat content for fuel over long distances.  When he talks about removing roadblocks he is mostly talking about changes to behaviour and mindset that allow his patients to think differently about themselves and the training process in order to go to the next level. 

Life, especially the life of an entrepreneur, is an endurance sport. 

The more I get involved in the triathlon world the more I recognize the similarities between disciplines involved in endurance training and those involved in business and entrepreneurship.  Here are just a few that I have observed so far.

  1. Nutrition

Eating right reaps benefits across a broad range of activities.  Carbs and simple sugars are responsible for most weight gain and general fatigue.  The easiest way to lose those love handles and increase your energy is to cut out the carbs.  Foods heavy in wheat and potatoes like bread, and chips are the most obvious culprits but don’t forget pastas and cereals too.  Just stopping the late-night bag of potato chips for me was worth at least five pounds.  I’ve since virtually eliminated breads and most potato products from my diet and I’ve never felt better, both physically and mentally.

       2. Sleep

A close second to eating right is getting enough sleep.  Your body needs time to recover and repair itself after a long day and hard training.  Nothing provides that time better than a good night’s sleep.  Your brain needs it too.  Falling into a rem state allows your brain to sort through all the sensory data it received throughout the day and never had time to process.  Chronic fatigue leads to mental stresses and physical aliments with some studies even linking a lack of sleep to heart disease, cancer and Alzheimer’s disease.  Consistently getting eight hours of sleep during the week might not be practical in our hyper connected and high-octane world but a modest goal should be at least 6.5 – 7 hours from Sunday to Thursday with time to catch a few extra hours on Friday and Saturday nights.  I even like to go for a catnap of 20 minutes or so on both Saturday and Sunday afternoons, for me there is nothing better than the feeling I get from catching a few extra zees when I come home from church on a Sunday afternoon. 

        3. Take it slow

Endurance training isn’t about knocking out your personal best every day.  Incremental improvements come by consistently working toward a better time, but you are also training your body physically and mentally to handle the demands of the event.  That means slowing down enough to listen to your body and allow your brain to communicate with your muscles.  Once they know how to talk to each other, then you can push for a better time but that only comes after you’ve developed a solid understanding of what your body needs. 

The same is true in business.    You’re not going to sign the big deal every day.  Especially in a planning-based business like mine, you need to be comfortable and confident enough in your process to take it slow and let the client’s needs and understanding evolve over time.  Slow and incremental development leads to a plan that the client both understands and takes strong ownership in.  Without that ownership your client could move with the whims of the market.  The more your client takes ownership in the process, the less likely they are to leave you when times get tough.

        4. Go Far

Endurance racing is all about the distance covered.  Tell just about anyone that you ran a marathon and they won’t care about your time so much as they will be impressed that you finished at all.  People who have never stuck with something that is hard long enough to see it through will usually look at you with a combination envy and adoration. 

In business, going the distance means setting a lofty goal and then working tirelessly to achieve it, sometimes for years.  When talk about the fact I was involved in 3 Juno award winning projects (Canada’s Grammys) during my days in the music business people are impressed.  But nobody cares about the 12 years of late nights in the studio, smoke fills bars, hundreds of thousands of miles on the road, long days working the phones and endless rejection that preceded that first win.  Or the second win.  Or the third win.  They only care that I was part of something amazing. 

If it takes you 5, 10 or even 20 years to achieve your goal, so be it.  Hard things take time, but they’re worth it.

        5. Repeat

In just about any endeavor, once you know what to do to achieve success, all you need to do is break it down into a repeatable process and just keep doing the same things over again.  The first Juno took 12 years, we won the second one four years later, and the third just two years after that.  It didn’t get any easier, we had just learned the process of recording, manufacturing, promotion and sales that would lead to success and were able to repeat the steps without wasting time on things that didn’t work. The same is true of everything worth doing, learn the process, cut out the redundancies, and repeat what works.

I am sure there are more parallels that I could draw between endurance training and business.  Life is journey, not a destination.  The journey is long.  Eat right, get enough rest, take your time, go the distance and repeat the process and you will find success.  That’s a promise.


Life on Purpose

By believing their lives are meaningless, modern thinkers are failing to act in their own self-interest, as the evidence now shows that people who embrace a spiritual view of a purposeful life (regardless of whether this view is derived from religion or from philosophy) are more likely to be happy and to find fulfillment in their one chance at life (regardless of whether that one chance is given by a Maker or by nature).  – Gregg Easterbrook; The Progress Paradox, How Life Gets Better While People Feel Worse

Do you believe there is a reason for your life? 

Better yet, do you live your life on purpose? 

The world is an amazing place and it just keeps getting better.  Today, people are more prosperous, healthier and less likely to get caught in war or violence of any kind than at any other time in history.  Technology continues to make our lives easier, giving us the ability to do more in less time, and with greater accuracy.  Thanks to medical advancements we are living longer with less chronic disease and recovering faster from injuries.  Thanks to advances in international relations and trade we are less likely to be called to serve in our national armies and to die in war or other armed conflicts.  In just about every metric imaginable, on a world-wide scale, life just keeps getting better and better every year. 

Sure, there are some localized issues and climate change is a real concern but the men who died in the trenches of World War I would trade our problems for theirs in a heartbeat.  Just over 100 years ago, if you got called into service in The Great War you were just as likely to contract the Spanish flu as you were to get shot in battle. 

In 1651, philosopher Thomas Hobbes characterized the natural life of the human animal as, “solitary, poor, nasty, brutish, and short”.  That is, without the existence of a benevolent centralized government.  The role of government, according to Hobbes, is to temper mankind’s basest nature and promote a peaceful and prosperous society.  Things obviously haven’t turned out quite the way he predicted but for the most part, Hobbes was right. 

Today however we live in a time when, despite the fact we have built a society as close to Hobbes’ ideal as possible, people are convinced things are getting worse and life is meaningless.  Why is that?  Anyone can see that life today is better than it was yesterday.  Why are we so easily convinced otherwise?

Personally, I think it has something to do with our inability to live on purpose.  We are too easily influenced and manipulated by outside interests and too quick to think the worst when things don’t immediately go our way.  We aren’t strong enough to remain focused and persevere through adversity, no matter how small.  We’ve gone soft.

Gregg Easterbrook, editor of The Atlantic Monthly and The New Republic, hit the nail on the head in his 2003 book quoted above.  People get depressed, and fear the worst, when we lose our sense of purpose. 

With a strong sense of purpose, we can weather just about any storm.  When business is bad, government regulations make it more difficult to compete or get ahead, and family troubles conspire to steal your focus, it’s purpose that helps us rise above. 

So today I want everyone to thing about their purpose.  Why does your business exist?  There are two times in the future when the answer to that question should cause you to alter course.  The first is when you answer, “I don’t know”.  When you no longer know why you’re doing something – stop doing it.  The second is when you answer with something along the lines of “mission accomplished”.  When the reason you’re doing something no longer exists, it’s time to re-evaluate and start something new. 

Many organizations fear “mission accomplished” almost more than failure but this is more of vision problem than it is a purpose problem.  If your stated purpose is to complete a specific project, what do you do when the project reaches a natural conclusion?  Your purpose needs to be bigger than that, or you need to have the courage to shut it down and look for something new.

Here’s to living on purpose.